Kids are Like 'Clay'



How well are you grooming your child? Are you the type of parents who buys all the things they ask for or you don't buy anything? It's up to you to decide but ask yourself, how long can you do the same. Don't you want them to mature.? Don't you want to see them as a success.

You will have to show them how to live happily with limited resources. Encourage them to work hard and teach them morally.

I have given the title as 'Your Child's like Clay'. You must be wondering why did I do that. It's pretty simple. Think how clay works. How things are made with clay. You shapes it and after it's ready you put under the sun or make it hot in some other way. Once it is done, It is done. There is no going back if you do find something wrong in it. It can only be broken with the shield it can not be shaped after the process right. 

This is what you must remember. Because having a child is a precious gift from God. If you don't think so, then you must ask this to some childless couples about this. 

We are so happy to have a child. To know that your roots are not going to end on you. We watch our children playing and even thinks what if he/she didn't grow up and you want to see that innocence in them always. 

Remember the Mother is the School for a child and Father is the teacher. 

Give Up Arguing

Do not Argue for anything. Arguing causes many problems. If you realize it you will understand that it exposes bad you. You wouldn't like to see that 'you'. It comes out when you argue for something and you wouldn't be able to stop or control it after you breaches some level.

So It is always good if you stop arguing Even if you are right. That is good for humanity, for you and for all of us. If you come up with a situation always remember that the opponent wants to reveal the Bad you. So just walk away... Be safe.

Ups and Downs

I have my Ups and Downs. Each one of us has it because the life is like that. We cry and We Laugh. We succeed and fails sometimes. What concerns is how we face it.
Quran says "Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease".  This means in all the things there is hardship and ease. Nothing in this life is ever all bad or good. In all the bad situation we are in there is something for you to be grateful.

ജീവിത ലക്ഷ്യം

ന്യൂ ജെന്നിനെ കുറിച് പലരും പറയാറുണ്ട് അവര്‍ ഇന്റര്‍നെറ്റ്‌, ഫോണ്‍ അഡിക്റ്റ് ആണു ഒന്നിനും കൊള്ളില്ല.. അങ്ങനെ പലതും.
ഇതില്‍ ചിലതൊക്കെ ശരിയുമാണ്. 

എന്നാല്‍, ഞാന്‍ കണ്ട ന്യൂ ജെന്‍ ഇതല്ല. 
അവര്‍ക്ക് ഡ്രീം ഉണ്ട്, അതിനു വേണ്ടി നന്നായി അധ്വാനിക്കുന്നുമുണ്ട്.
പലപ്പോളും അതിനുള്ള റിസള്‍ട്ട്‌ കിട്ടാറില്ല എന്നതാണ് സത്യം.

നന്നായി കഷ്ടപെട്ടിട്ടും റിസള്‍ട്ട്‌ കിട്ടാതാകുമ്പോള്‍ 
വിഷമിക്കാറുമുണ്ട് നമ്മള്‍.

പക്ഷെ, ഇത്രയൊന്നും കഷ്ടപെടാതെ 
ഡ്രീം കം ട്രു എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞാല്‍ അതിനൊരു സുഗമില്ലല്ലോ.
കഷ്ടപ്പെട്ട്, അദ്ധ്വാനിച്ചു റിസള്‍ട്ട്‌ കിട്ടുമ്പോള്‍
അതിന്‍റെ മധുരം ഇരട്ടിയാണ്.

ഭൂമി പറയും, മനുഷ്യാ. ഇനി നിന്നെ ഞാന്‍ ഭക്ഷിക്കട്ടെ.

മനുഷ്യന് ജീവന്‍
നിലനിര്‍ത്താന്‍ വേണ്ടതെല്ലാം
തരുന്നുണ്ട് മണ്ണ്, അഥവാ ഭൂമി.
നമ്മള്‍ പലപ്പോഴും ഭൂമിയോട്
അനുവാദം ചോദിച്ചിട്ടല്ല
ഇത് ചെയ്യുന്നത്.
എന്നാല്‍
മനുഷ്ട്യന്‍ മരിച്ചാല്‍
ഭൂമി ചോദിക്കും,
ഇത്രയും നാള്‍ ഞാന്‍ തന്ന
ഭക്ഷണം നീ കഴിച്ചില്ലേ.
ഇനി,
ഞാന്‍ നിന്നെ ഭക്ഷിക്കുവാന്‍ പോകുവാണ്.

Don't give up

Please Don't give up. Just hang in there something will come up for sure. 

Are We Slaves?

Who is a Slave? Can you think of yourself as one? Yes, we all are slaves in one or another way.


Well, why do I think so? It is because I believe that's the truth.  I am a Slave of Laziness. I am a slave of comforts as well. We all are so lazy to do something. We want comfort. Sometimes we take risks in life but on the process, you might think that you want to go back to the comfort zone and leave all the work you have done and is doing. 

How many times a day you think you want to leave whatever you are doing. 

Be strong and work hard.

Open Your Eyes.

Maybe we are so blind to see the truth. When we read a novel or watch a cinema we may cry and feel bad about what happened. We think why did this happen.

But in Real life would you even care? No, we don't. In a fiction, you are with the Victims and the one who suffers because you don't have to act upon it. You just have to show some tear in the nights and you feel you have done something better. If you want to do something better for the society, then act. 

At least show your tear for the truth, To the real characters.

Most films show us the un-normal characters and tell us that is how you want to live. No that isn't true. You are Real. You are what's Real.

Times of India, issue front page apology for fake news about missing student Najeeb

Times of India must carry a generously worded, front page apology and clarification of the entire matter as soon as possible.
Sign This Petition.


https://www.change.org/p/times-of-india-issue-front-page-apology-for-fake-news-about-missing-student-najeeb?recruiter=538975373&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=copylink


All of this made for a great story, except it wasn't! The Delhi Police promptly responded to this story by holding a press conference in which Mr. Dependra Pathak, Chief Spokesperson of the Delhi Police, clarified three things:

  1. Delhi Police has not received any such report from Google or YouTube about Najeeb Ahmed's search history.
  2. There has been no submission of any such proof in the High Court, as claimed by the story.
  3. There is nothing in the Delhi Police investigation that could suggest any link of the missing student to IS or ISIS.

Listen to the silence.

The silence has much, much to say. Listen to it sometime.

Listen to the stories which it has to tell you.


What Leads you?

Hope or Expectation?
Both has its own advantages and disadvantages. But Give it a time to think which leads the real you.
Our real fuel must be hope but not the Expectations. The family, friends, Society everyone will be expecting something from you. And you will never accomplish your goals if you want to fulfill those expectations.